tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21656676.post2598957887506908775..comments2012-08-25T18:19:21.911-05:00Comments on my three boys.: and life goes onAprilhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09112176201417163263noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21656676.post-10335319884793503572007-12-06T16:34:00.000-05:002007-12-06T16:34:00.000-05:00Amber,I'm really not sure if his sexuality was a f...Amber,I'm really not sure if his sexuality was a factor in things at all. I think, even if subconsciencely, that it probably was a part of it, in all honesty. Whether it be the drinking because of the guilt. Or the alleged drug abuse to forget his problems. He never really mentioned that he was gay. Everyone knew, but he never said anything about it.<BR/><BR/>I don't know if it was shame or if he was afraid of what people would think. Only today did we find out for sure that he was, in fact, "out" to his family.<BR/><BR/>And, I feel the same as you about some people's opinions on gays. It infuriates me that some people have the nerve to chastise someone being attracted to the same sex. For loving someone who just happens to have the same parts as they do. Who the hell cares?!! As long as they are happy why should it matter? And why should they be made to feel like there is anything wrong with their decision? This world is hard enough without making extra burdens for people to carry on their hearts.<BR/><BR/>And, anyway, aren't there more important things in this world to discriminate against, like child molesters, or child abductors, than who someone is attracted to? Isn't that like discriminating against love? And no one sees a problem with that?!!Aprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09112176201417163263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21656676.post-63258562751906199992007-12-06T13:56:00.000-05:002007-12-06T13:56:00.000-05:00Oh I am so so sorry. :( I know you wish now you ha...Oh I am so so sorry. :( I know you wish now you had done or said something but it's hard when people don't say anything about their loneliness. Life is hard enough without carrying extra guilt over your sexuality; I wonder if that had any part in it? It makes me so angry when I hear people who shun gays for being gay. How would *they* like it if they were ostracized for something they cannot help? Bah, don't get me started.<BR/><BR/>My sympathies to you and your co-workers.Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12275774046219836099noreply@blogger.com