tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21656676.post5917089155548720332..comments2012-08-25T18:19:21.911-05:00Comments on my three boys.: D-I-V-O-R-C-EAprilhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09112176201417163263noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21656676.post-5663036654992404042007-04-10T16:28:00.000-05:002007-04-10T16:28:00.000-05:00Oh wow. This really hit home and made me remember ...Oh wow. This really hit home and made me remember my own first marriage. We met when I was 14 and he was 16. We were also each other's "firsts". And there were many sweet moments in the many years we were married.<BR/><BR/>As you say, it's so easy to blot out the good times and only concentrate on the bad. I think it makes us feel better about ending it plus it's easier to distance yourself when you convince yourself that they were completely in the wrong and you were totally in the right.<BR/><BR/>Even though that's hardly ever true.<BR/><BR/>Good for you for facing up to your own mistakes and realizing it was a two-way street. I did that too and it's very empowering.<BR/><BR/>And thanks for such a lovely, bittersweet remembrance of your previous marriage.<BR/><BR/>I read once that every marriage is a success because you got married. If it fails later, well...sometimes that happens but it doesn't erase the positive times. :)<BR/><BR/>Thanks for sharing this. :) It was good for me to read.Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12275774046219836099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21656676.post-90139238052034354902007-04-10T16:25:00.000-05:002007-04-10T16:25:00.000-05:00OH APRIL I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOU AND SCOTT...OH APRIL I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOU AND SCOTT :( I REMEMBER THE GOODTIMES BETWEEN YOU GUYS TOO AND IT BREAKS MY HEART TO HEAR THAT YOU TWO ARE OVER :( I AM GLAD YOU ARE REMEMBERING THE GOODTIMES YOU TWO HAD. THE FOUR OF US HAD ALOT OF GREAT TIMES TOGETHER AND I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE LAUGHS WE HAD. HOPE ALL ELSE IS WELL BEST TO YOU ON YOUR NEW START. AN OLD FRIEND FROM NORTON OHIO.kingdom hearts 3https://www.blogger.com/profile/14151688781936679975noreply@blogger.com